The kindergarten comes back, he always forgets to return. But because frequently insufficiently brave or other reason, makes friends the desire is very always difficult to satisfy.
Mother once please go home some children, result several children blubber, the effect is not good. Originally makes friends is one kind of ability, is needs to raise.
Mother started in the baby 2 years old to be possible to raise ability which the baby became friends.
1st,gifts for kids, the church baby and the society communicates ability in the game
Through makes the game, your child will learn with other people share to be joyful, observes the game rule. Understands plays in turn, moreover in the usual situation, they also meet politeness treatment game partner. You may try the following these activities to raise baby's ability.
Does with me
In this game, you may organize the baby who many toddle with to make various movements as you like,baby gift, these movements name by you, and performs by you, funnier is better. In order to increase some interests, you may establish some simple barriers in the entire process, gets the babies to climb over the pillow, passes through tunnel which does with the paper box, or another walks around the chair.
Picture large drawing
Encourages two or more babies paints pictures together, may use the chalk to draw on the sidewalk, or at home uses the wax pencil to draw on a paper.
Dancing
Plays a music, enters into the spirit, looks that you the baby and his friend invest together dance.
The eagle seizes the chicken
This kind of very ancient game not can only strengthen baby's coordinated ability, but can also raise their team spirit.
2nd,kids shoes, when the baby makes friends encounters the difficulty
Do not give you the baby qualitative, also does not allow others to determine the nature of for yours baby.
The social skill must describe for certain us the thing which studies diligently, moreover any baby's social characteristic should not describe the fixed pattern. For example a baby's shyness, slow or combative. Any qualitative description often gradually becomes the fixed behavior, becomes the permanent disposition.
Establishes the friendship with an age younger baby to have the opportunity to let you baby he be compared to the same period smaller and respectively he the baby contact, exercises his leadership and the social skill, this is helpful in him obtains with contemporaries same level social participation ability.
Elimination pressure
When the children the attention focus how when to respond elder's regards or the question, their embarrassment and will strengthen suddenly not naturally. We should not arrive at when this kind only then taught the baby to want politeness. How can teach the baby to ahead of time do, for instance saw the elder to give regards.
You also participate in which
Through participates in the social activity with other babies helping you together the baby to become friends. Approximately other baby to the courtyard, initiates a patrol; Let you the baby and his friend crosses each family together or participates in the neighborhood the activity.
Appraises the kindergarten the environment
When you choose the kindergarten, appraises the kindergarten as far as possible the social environment. Which do here behavior standards have? Whether to all babies is the environment which friendly is glad accepts? Whether to encourage the babies to cooperate mutually?
Takes baby's example you
Your necessity has not done compared to yours baby much, is better. But if you avoid some social question, or displays this kind of tendency, will affect you enormously the baby.
When necessity seeks professional's help
As for some babies, the psychology education possibly has the help to him. If your baby extreme timid, always works as the scapegoat, or very combative, extremely easy to get angry, tells the expert, he will help you to find the baby the appropriate way which in a friendly way was together with other people.
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